Why Do People Fall In Love???

I really wonder....Why do people fall in love??
Most to most, they succeed in it or they get hurt or they get
nothing worth out of it.
Which is which is the truth?
Till now i don't have the answer for it...hehehe...

Its a unique feeling to fall in love...but at the same time,
the effect of falling out of love is also unique.
For those who have gone thru will know what i am reffering to.

Those days 'Love at first sight' was thought Divine.Because it
was true and long lasting.
But now? 'Love at first sight' meant Puppy Love / Crush / Infatuation
etc etc....
During our grandparents and even before their time,they marry the person
they love.That also, first love was their life partner.But now!!!!
Can someone please englighten me, if there are still people around who is still
in that ancient time? I doubt so.

In my opinion,Love is just like a decoration on a christmas tree.Up for deco n than
pull down when its over...Why tarnish the name of LOVE? If you are not up to it,Don't
do it.

Love is a beautiful word where you can't define it in words.You really have to feel it
genuinely, than only you will know the real meaning of it.

People ending their life because of a love failure is rising day by day.Don't this people
know that it is not the end of the world if you are dumped.Gals committing suicide for guys.
Guys commiting suicide for gals.This is why they fell in love for??
When u ask the gals,they will say that,they got no choice.
Why? Because, they lost their virginity to them so they must end their life. You think this
reason is worth a life?? Do we see any guys comitting suicide just because they lost their
virginity to their galfriends?? Than why do this gals have to end life for this reasons?

Please gals!! You can do better than that.If you were to look into this gals profiles, you
be shocked to see that partial of them are highly educated gals.Gals that forgot to use their
brains to think if it was worth dieing for a guy.Same goes for guys...If you guys thought i am
only going to support the gals than you are wrong.
There are some brainless guys where they commit suicide or destroy their life for a gal whom they
knew for a short life.Didn't this people for once stopped to think that they have other things in
life to consider about.

For example..their parents,studies,ambition,dreams...etc..etc...
Did their parents gave birth to them so that they can end their life for some people who just came
in a swift of a wind and left? What is the worth of the dreams and ambition they had all their lifes?
Is it worth giving all this for a love which was never in the first place yours??

This is only one example...Many of us would have came across other type of foolish people who are in
relationship.Have you came across gals in a relationship where they will be still sticking to this guy,
who beats them up?? Oh yes...there are quite a handful of them around us.
The guy will beat them up for talking to other guys or doing things which they don't favour. I wonder how
the situation will be if the table was turned around on them....Interesting right? hehehe....
But there gals who will turn their boyfrends life a living hell also. Everything the guys do they will
suspect and always fight n quarrel with them. This kind of gals will turn this guys mental.

There are even people who use the name of love and destroy lives.Such as many you and myself are bound
to know. Guys will say I LOVE YOU to gals so that they can have a free RIDE (i am aware you will know what
i am reffering to). Gals will say I LOVE YOU to guys to get pampered by money and material stuffs.Is this
LOVE???

There are also some who fall in love and live happily.There are some who will go thru hardship together and
strengthen their love on the path.They understand each others needs,likes,thoughts....etc etc.
They respect one another's feelings and thoughts. When they have a slight misunderstandings, they sit down
and talk things out instead of giving each other cold treatment and screaming and shouting.

I have seen love lasting so long that it ends in marriage n lifelong standing strong. I have also seen love
lasting till marriage but that marriage doesn't last long.There is also a kind of love where it doesn't last
till marriage. Some don't even last till their first anniversary or even a month. *Sigh*

There are people who have phobia for falling in love. Even when the right guy comes by, their phobia will be
haunting them and make things worst for them also. Is it their fault that they are scared to fall in love or
accept it from others?? Isn't love suppose to be wonderful? Beautiful? Divine?
Than why this much of confusion??

People if you are not sure if you up to fall in love or love someone,don't do it. Don't use this heavenly
word to get free sex or anything.This also applies for gals. Now we can't blame the guys alone.Gals do play
a part in this game.

I would really appreciate if you guys drop me your own opinion of this matter.